I hope nobody reading this has to use this information, but I was reminded of how devastating fire can be to a family when I read an article in today’s Free Lance Star. The story was about a family of 3 who were displaced by a fire. When I was an insurance agent I dealt with several families who had home fires. It never got any easier.
Still, if you have friends who have a fire and they call you for help, here is what you can do to assist them. First, make sure they have a place to stay. Their insurance company or the Red Cross should handle that, but if they are having trouble you should be acquainted with some local churches and shelters. Second, if you can offer any financial assistance they would certainly appreciate it. I’m not talking thousands of dollars, but some spending money or cash for diapers or toiletries is very helpful. If you are not comfortable giving cash, then consider donating some toiletries, diapers, snacks or the like. Clothing is a big need, since not wearing it can get a little uncomfortable.
It is also a nice gesture to have them over for a meal, offer to watch the kids or even offer to help them look through the remains for personal effects. Really, showing support in any way and being there for them is what is important. If you are really motivated, you may want to try helping out with a fundraiser for them. You can also find them some stuff on freecycle. I hope this helps, and I honestly hope you never have to watch your friends go through something like this.
Couldn’t agree more. Victims of home fires need compassion and security in times of peril.